Customizing ActionScript 3 XML FLV Player

I have purchased an AS3 XML FLV Player from activeden and have embedded it into another Flash file but now some things don't work. Here is the site [login to view URL] . Click "HOME" and you will see the player with the menu hidden and then click "TRAILERS" and you'll see the full player with menu. I'm having 3 issues with the player: 1. The fullscreen button/option doesn't work. You can see it working on the sample page where I bought it- [login to view URL] . 2. I customized the colors and most of them are working but I made the backs and arrows of the menu orange and the text reddish. It works when I open the swf- [login to view URL] . But when a part of another swf, ([login to view URL] . Click "HOME" and then click "TRAILERS") it reverts back to black with white type. 3. The version I have on HOME autoplays which is what I want. The version on TRAILERS also autoplays. I want the first video to load but not play until the menu button is pressed. And then any of the others need to play when the menu arrow is pressed as well.