Decision Making on Different Race Marriage

'Don't jugde book by it's cover' a person should be jugde by his or her character not by their race. Race is just something that saying we are coming from different traditional family. Which make us 1 Malaysian in this peaceful and amazing country. Is not about malay, chinese or indians? Is about the people who live as one big family in this country and all the people around this world. There were only one race in our world which is human race. In Malaysia and Singapore, the majority of inter-ethnic marriages are between Chinese and Indians. The offspring of such marriages are informally known as "Chindian". It's mean there is not disagreement between parents and children to marry a person from different race.

'Mum, Dad I love a chinese girl whom study in my college' the first expression you will get from them when you said it was 'no' as the answered but how you want to make them blessing your relationship with her. You have to persuade them if they didn't agree go along with their decision. It's not mean you should forgot her but find another way to make her get along with your family and make them accept her as your wife.

Before you saying you love a different race girl. You should give them a good expression about her to your family like about her character, attitude, does she suitable for your family and etc. Introduce the girl you loved as your best friend then as the time is pass. When she get along with your family as one of your family member and you parents want her to be their daughter in law. That's the moment you tell about her family background that she coming from different race. Now, there is no reason for them disapprove your relationship because what they want is the best for your life.

That's was the decision on make the parent's blessing their different race relationship. No matter what if they truly love someone there is no race between them that can separate them. The main reason why parents disapprove different race relationship is cause they scare that person might be separate their children from them and can't able to love them as much as they love their child. Parent's will approved your different race relationship if you promise that your relationship will not ruined your son and parent's relationship. There is no parent's who didn't love their children. Different race is not a wall to any parent's.

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