Convert Existing Video Player to Jquery+FlowPlayer+RTMP

I have a finished and working video browser system built with a flash menu applet that reads an XML file, and makes simple javascript calls to a shadowbox popup (overlay) which then plays flv videos in jwplayer. Example: [login to view URL] zip file attached. 150k Without changing the Flash applet (XML can change somewhat), I wish to add the following features and capabilities: 1 convert the output to jquery+flowplayer, with a video popup overlay similar to examples at the flowplayer site. There are many source code examples at [login to view URL] 2 serve videos from my existing MaxCDN account using RTMP with a secure token. I already have the videos served via maxcdn in http mode. Secure token capability will be added to this account. The RTMP version of Flowplayer must be used and configured for RTMP and secure token. [login to view URL] has information on how to get this to work. 3 create a permission system in PHP so that this flash applet cannot be iframed (or integrated) except by approved websites. Referrer checking will probably work fine, I have already tested it, but I am open to suggestions about the best way to do this. If referrer's domain is not on an 'approved domain list' display a message and a contact-us form from an external/existing website. 4 As video play is initiated, add a video play request event should be added to the database with date/time, approved domain, video identifier. 5 Using the flowplayer content plugin, I wish to use cuepoints to display a small translucent html message overlay with text and a link, over the video for a few seconds shortly after the video begins and again at a midpoint in the video. The text message and link should be unique to each site on the 'approved domain list'. So if [login to view URL] is approved, and this applet is iframed at [login to view URL] then this momentary caption for all videos will say "thanks for visiting [login to view URL] + link" or whatever html is in the database associated with that approved domain. 6 The video overlay div background color should be passed from the approved domain list. It is currently gray in the demo. Also the Flowplayer (commercial version) logo overlay png should be passed from the approved domain list. 7 Videos must auto close at completion and return to menu system. This is working currently and must be preserved. All functions must be validated in all popular browsers. I am able to maintain/enhance PHP code, but I am not so good with Javascript. I know that some original JS will be required for integration, but for most program logic I prefer that it be done in PHP. At some point I will wish to manage/update the database from within Joomla, so if possible keep that in mind during the design. The attached zip file is a full demo of my existing app that will run on your localhost only.