Help me setting up an adult themed Magento store

Sorry for re-posting the project, but my wife decided, that she want the online shopping feature now already as well. So please read the modified project description. Thanks. I need your help setting up a fully functional adult themed Magento store. If the subject matter is not for you please do not continue reading through this project description. Here is where I stand. I am a total newbie to Magento. My hosting service is Godaddy and I installed Magento there. My website is her.co.ke. That’s about it. I want to purchase this template [login to view URL] and make it my site. From our wholesaler I have feeds (XML, CSV or XSL) with the product data and a zip file with all the pictures. The pictures names included the item number and a consecutive number if there is more than one picture. I need your help with the following things: • What parts of the template do I need to purchase? Do I need to purchase a clone of the demo store? • How to integrate the template. • How to customize the start page (replace the logo with my own ; replace the logos for the scrolling banner; replace the pictures for the slide; add a block of text describing our concept) • How to add a page with link from the menu bar for a more detailed description of our company. • How to import the product data. • How and into which folder to download the product pictures. • Information on what would be needed to automatically update my store with my suppliers feeds. • How to add Lipa na M-PESA ([login to view URL]) as a payment option. I will purchase and pay for the template. There are two ways we can do this project. 1. I give you the login credentials for my store and you do all the work 2. Or, what I would prefer, you talk me through everything and I do the work myself. Thanks for your bid in advance. Looking forward to working with you.