6717 Add an IM system to my website

Hello, I have a dating website being designed right now... but i would like to add a Instant Messanger system with my own label... I am not sure how the backend works with the IM system... but if possible to integrate it with the member system... If you have any questions please let me know.... Also I am looking for someone who has already done this before and please provide me with a link to view your portfolio. Thanks, Ayaz